Ok, you got me. I'm just as stoopit as you, I was just hoping to throw out some random bullshit about motorcycle oil on the interwebz to fool a fool.I'm paying attention man. You can't expect someone who has very little experience in this area to just take your word when you provide absolutely no evidence for your claim. From the research I have done, I cannot find any definitive data that states that friction modifiers ruin wet clutches. I have read a few times that they may cause slippage, but words like "ruin" and "fatal" are much more dramatic than anything I've read.
Good luck learning about motorcycles, you're going to need it.