+1Paper clip!! Bend a paper clip straight and then insert it at the wire end...above the wire. There is a little clip you must push down towards the wire. Push the wire into the plug as this will release pressure on the clip. It is a little tricky but once you get a couple done you should be able to get the rest easy!
Yes, it should slide into the female end and release the pin so you can pull it out the backside..I put this tool into the front of the plug (opposite side of wires), as in first pic?
Not cool man.
In the United States, Japanese Americans have come to find the term controversial or offensive, even when used as an abbreviation.
If you want to use an abbreviated version of Japan or Japanese, please use JPN, or strain your fingers to type the few extra letter. In the context you used it in I read it as calling the Japanese part sub-standard, therefor derogatory.
Wikipedia is a great tool, and any decent article cites it sources for verification purposes, as that article does.
I never said that I was offend, I just am telling you that some people would be, and that using that term isn't cool. I do the same in a bar or restaurant if someone is dropping other racial and ethnic slurs.