I'm new here but been married 38 years and riding 52 years so take my opinion for what it's worth. There is no way I would have his and her plates on our bikes. We have never dressed alike and make fun of couples that do. To me that is lame and flies in the face of motorcycle independence. The only reason I even mentioned it is I don't want you to put your husband in a difficult position or you for that matter. I hope you make the right decision.